One day, a partner of Chicago Hot Glass came to me in a panick..."we have an opening for Maestro Elio Quarisa's workshop, and miscalculated the budget"! I smiled, though goblet's weren't my area of sculpting, agreeing to meet the shortfall, and attend this workshop. From the first moment of meeting Elio, and his wife Adriana, I knew I was in the presence of not just a great & passionate Maestro, but one who loved life, his wife, people.
My wife & I were asked if we could show Elio & Adriana Chicago, and immediately connected, like old friends. I was fortunate to spend many times (though not enough), at our homes in Murano & the US. Elio and I became something greater than friends, he was like the brother I always had envisioned. Many times, without speaking, we found we had the same thoughts, at the same time...could finish each others sentences.
One of the hardest things I've experienced, along with losing my father, was losing Elio.
On the one hand, I know a friendship, besides your spouse, is possibly something that happens once in your lifetime, if at all. And, times you experienced, profound & amazing as they are at the time, become benchmarks of your life. To me, each time with Elio was like that. I think of times, laughing with Elio, of watching him walk thru the streets of his beloved Murano, with anyone & everyone near him yelling out "Ciao, Elio", and knowing he then asked how they were, their family, friends, listening intently-to each word. Elio constantly demonstrated his passion-of glass, of life, for people.
I told Elio, if he ever ran for Mayor of Murano, he would win by a landslide!
So, now as we approach 2 years since losing Elio, I realize how fortunate I was, how fortunate we all were, for having Elio with us, as a teacher, husband, Maestro, friend. My heart still has the same heaviness as when Adriana told me that he had passed on, but the joy of knowing the place in my heart-where he lives, as with so many others he touched & loved him. He is in my mind when I'm working in glass, I hear him saying "Lee, easy, easy, breathe...elegante!", meaning, love the glass, relax, enjoy.
I think to the month before he passed away, how energetic he was, still, without anyone knowing his suffering & battle with cancer. I remember our visiting Roberto Dona, at Carlo Dona Tools watching Elio & Roberto conversing, like father & son, Elio's hand on Roberto's shoulder, with such concern...their laughter together!
Elio affected so many lives, from the aspiring future glass Maestro thru Maestro Pino Signoretto, who knew each other since children, to some of the last people to collaborate Elio...Josh Simpson, Dante Marioni (both speaking of him with reverence). Watching him on You Tube, assisting him, you share the feeling of being in the presence of a great person, a caring person, an unspoken Maestro of Maestro's.
I know Jeff Mack was right when he told me "I believe that Elio will live forever, that more & more people will look at his legacy, his work, earning him the place he so deserved"...a Maestro that comes around every few generations.
Elio's only request was to have his beloved Muranese Glass techniques, which he passionately learned & embraced, from 9 years old, not die with his generation, with the end of his life.
I know this, he repeated it to me many times, as his greatest hope.
To this I end..."Ciao Elio"-we love you, always will.